For the record, in my case- I am thrilled that they take
no action to help me. I hope that it continues.
The same thing happened in my case. I found it sad that after knowing them for many years no one made any effort to try to stop me from leaving but on the other had it proved my point that the whole this was based on conformity and fear. I had no intention of ever going back and their lack of concern made it much easier. I would think they probably get orders from the society that the best way to deal with people like you is to ignore you and hope you just go away. If they confront you others would hear about it and they really don't want anyone to start thinking. When I could no longer believe in what they taught and told my wife it was amazing how quickly the word spread. The elders called me right away and wanted to meet with me but once I laid the ground rules down (I also wanted my wife there and someone else there to witness the proceedings) they said they would have to get back to me. They never did. When I asked my wife what was going on she said they told her I had already made my decision so there was no point in talking with me and that was it.
By the way yesterday was the first time I set foot in a Kingdom Hall in over 25 years. I went to attend my sister-in-laws funeral. I think I'll start a thread on this subject.